i make the other person feel he's NOTHING. if i feel someone gets close to my checklist, i set the bar higher... to another level of impossibility. if he breaks down, i tag him as gay, chicken, or softy. if he shuts up, i accuse him of being intimidated or dumb. if he walks away, i say he's "not interested enough." if he comes back, i think he's after revenge. ha! me and my twisted brain! i am the craziest girl any guy could ever fall for... so don't even think about it.