Distance is a good healer. It makes a person forget. But the most effective band-aid solution is preoccupation. It does not only make you forget, it makes you feel invisible. When you're busy, you become oblivious to things around you. You don't mind the absence of things or persons. You become focused on your well-defined priorities. You forget the frills. You simply don't mind.
And then people start to unmind as well. They pass by without noticing you. Your face doesn't make them remember things anymore. You start to become a frill to them. Soon, you cease to exist in their memory. Ergo, they forget about you too.
They say time heals all wounds. So I say: [distance x time x busy life] will give everyone a pretty good memory lapse. I just hope this process is reversible.
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