Dating grifters

Instagram dating gurus are full of shit. They operate from two polarized points of view. If you listen closely to what they are harping, you will understand why our society is full of unhappy and entitled single people.

They tell the guys to work on themselves but tell the girls that no guy is too busy. They tell the girls to have standards but tell the guys that a girl will be submissive to the right guy. They tell the guys not to respond to her text right away but tell the girls that the right guy will not make them wait. They tell the guys not to be clingy or desperate but tell the girls that the right guy will always find ways to make them feel special. 

Seriously, these dating grifters should try harder or, at the very least, discuss among themselves to come up with more harmonious dating rules and advice. Dating is already hard enough as it is. They should not confuse the already star-crossed lovers and complicate things. But I guess we should know better than to trust these relationship charlatans who suggest that love is a one-size-fits-all thing.